Wednesday 17 October 2018

Parameters of Housing


The Parameters of Housing

Below information taken from - The Prince Edward Island "Housing and Data Trends. Published 5/17/2018   www.princeedwardisland.ca/poverty-reduction

DEFINITIONS OF HOUSING NEED 
The Canada Mortgage and Housing Corporation (CMHC) defined housing need as made up of three factors: 
  •  housing is unaffordable if it costs more than 30 percent of before-tax household income. 
  • housing is inadequate if it needs major repairs; and 
  • housing is unsuitable if it does not have enough bedrooms for the size and makeup of the household. 

Households facing these conditions are considered to be in need only if they cannot afford to address them. A household is said to be in “core housing need” if: 
  • its housing falls below at least one of the adequacy, affordability or suitability standards, and 
      • the household would have to spend 30 percent or more of its total before-tax 
      • income to pay the median rent of alternative local housing that is acceptable (meets all three housing standards.)
According to the 2016 census, over 10,000 households in Prince Edward Island had at least one housing need, but fewer than half of those (4,880) were in core housing need. 

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Joey Blacquiere - My Housing Journey

I'm not sure when I stopped thinking of where I lived as just being home and that being with either of my parents was a sure and questionless thing. However, I do know that when mom died in 1988 and when Dad remarried in 1990, I began to think of housing differently. I started thinking of it in more independent terms of what I needed as a place to live.

I met Carol Clark on February 13, 1991 and we began dating. Carol lived with her parents just outside of Kensington and she would travel into Summerside and stay with me on the weekends. However, shortly afterward I moved in with her into her parent's home as Carol's father had a heart condition and needed help with the barn work.

While I was living with Carol's family my Dad informed me that he had sold his house on Ottawa Street to my brother Paul. He also wanted to know if I wanted to live in the house with my brother but he told me I would have to make a decision and let him know as soon as possible.

I was no longer living in the house so I was surprised about how sad I felt about the family house being sold. I really did appreciate my Dad's offer of my being able to live with my brother, however, I wasn't certain that I was ready to take on the level of shared responsibility that co-managing a house would require.

None of us can see into the future and unfortunately Carol and I broke up in the spring of 1997 and I found myself in the uncertain and scary place of no longer having a home.

After the breakup I called Dad to let him know what happened and he started calling around to help me with finding a place. After making calls, Dad said that our options at that time were either a group home or MacDonald's Community Care Home. I let Dad know that for me going to the Group Home was not an option I was willing to consider but that I would go with him to check out MacDonald's Community Care Home . We went and I decided that I would stay there until a better option for housing came my way. I moved into MacDonald's Community Care Home in 1997 and ended up living there for 7 years.

The majority of the residents at MacDonald's Community Care Home were seniors with serious health conditions that required supervision and prevented them from being able to continue living independently. While I there I was exposed to a lot of suffering due to illness and a lot of death. As well, my level of independence had been drastically cut – MacDonald's staff wouldn't set my meals aside for me to reheat later so if I was not back by 4:00 P.M. my supper would thrown out and it was a battle (that I finally won) to be able to stay out past their curfew of 10 P.M.

This all took its toll on me mentally and emotionally. I began to feel abandoned by life and I wondered why my existence was reduced to living this way. I did not feel like I was contributing to the life of my community and so I felt worthless. When I was out in the coffee shops and people asked me where I was living and I told them, they would tell me that I did not belong there. It felt good to hear that because it affirmed what I felt but it was frustrating to hear it too because that was my reality.

Until...

A new staff person was hired at MacDonald's Community Care Home. Her name was Carolyn Norring. Carolyn let me know that she was going to buy a home and she gave me an option to move in with her and have her as a caregiver. I told her I was interested and gave her permission to speak to my family about it.

I moved in with Carolyn Norring on May 2, 2003 and I have been living with Carolyn and her family for the past 15 years. I am also attending a day program - Prepare Challenge Create Day Program and work as a reporter on the news blog: EOV.

EOV covers stories of interest to persons with disabilities and Islanders in general. Housing I know is not only a concern for myself but for many Islanders. It is empowering for me to work on stories such as housing and give back to my community in a meaningful way.

My future hopes for housing? I would like to see my housing parameters expand have my own place and live more independently. What I am envisioning is an apartment that is on the ground level in a secure building in the Hill Crest housing area. Hill Crest apartments come with fridge and stove, heat and sewer and have a maintenance team that take care of all the maintenance, snow removal of driveways, grass cutting. They also have an option to rent at an extra fee washers and dryers that you have to install. Location is important to me. Community involvement and independence is something I take pride in and I want to be in close proximity to grocery stores, coffee shops and all the businesses and organizations that I most often frequent.




Thursday 12 April 2018

Darlene



Darlene

On Tuesday, April 10th, 2018 I went to see my mom twice that day, in the morning and again to see her that evening.

My mom, Darlene, passed away that evening at 8:15pm.

Gathered around her were her two girls; myself, Joni Lee and my sister, Jennifer Lynn, our mom's sister, Tammy and our mom's husband, Lea.

Our mom lived a grand life. She had a great job and a loving family. One of my special memories of mom and me took place in November in 2015. It was just Mom and me for two weeks. Well, Mom and I took a tour bus filled with other country music lovers. We went on a bus tour to Nashville. We had a grand two weeks. I will always treasure that time with her.


When our mom went to Alberta to see my sister Jennifer and her family she started having some pain. Jennifer, being a nurse, told Mom to go for a test at the hospital. Mom was tested and it was pancreatic cancer. The doctors at the hospital in Alberta did surgery and mom got better.

But then in January 2018 the cancer came back. She was at home for a while but eventually went to the Summerside Hospital.

On Tuesday evening when our mom passed away I was there and I'm glad I was. Lea, her husband took it hard. He said she was too young.

I called Catherine from the hospital and told her and when I got to my apartment I told Suzanne that my mom passed away. Catherine and Jim came to my apartment. I told them that I wasn't going in to work on Thursday morning. They said that was fine and that I just needed to do what I needed to do to take care of me.

I'm going to miss my mom a lot but I have lots of family and friends around me and I know they will come when I need them.

I would like to thank everyone for their support and prayers for my mom and our family and for the PCC Day Program for helping me go through my loss. I have lots of friends by my side and that was a comfort to my mom.

I have always loved the song by Brett Kissel, “I Didn't Fall in Love With Your Hair.” He wrote that song for his Mom when his mom had cancer and whenever I hear this song I think of my mom and how much love she needed when she was going through all she had to go through.

Today I was helping Catherine in the kitchen and I asked her, “Do you know how I'm getting through this? It's my music.”

Mom, I will keep on singing.








 E.O.V Reporter:

Joni Lee Miner
My Mom, Darlene and I